Why does it always seem to take me?

This young woman with whom I worked for 4 years. I've always been very, very nice to her. I am a person easy to take but most people do it in a fun or a joke. This girl seems to be a middle way. However, it requires work to be my friend. We are not really friends outside of work too. Even if you are invited to their wedding and wedding shower. But she will say really mean things like I did today, she said he liked my shirt, but then he said, but I like your jean jacket. One day I had my curly hair different, she said her hair looks a bit effeminate today and laughed. She's the type to be honest with people anyway, but I think it looks more to me than that with others. Everything that has never been kind to her, I do not understand. The People will probably say he is jealous, but it is a very pretty girl. So what could it be? And how do you handle this situation? She is 24 years if not a baby. All opinions would be helpful Thanks!

Maybe she trusts you and does not understand the damage that his words are the source as if it is sarcastic but I think you understand. whether or not a friend, just asked her why she made comments that do not feel so hot. but not private. She thanked him for coming to it.

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