Am I a pain?

I'm getting married in November and my mother wants me to throw a bachelorette party. I am very picky about many things and I always I imagined my wedding shower and sleep. I have an issue that I and my mother would not let me part of my Bridal Shower TO ALL. What is a procrastinator and can be lazy from time to time during the taste is totally different then mine. Therefore, since I love doing this kind of things that I wanted to help with some ideas that I had happened since I'm committed. These places vault only reasonable ideas, decorations, etc. Can anyone give me advice on what to do? I want to emphasize very nice, no shower I do not think that this is possible with my mother. What should I do? Thanks in advance!

talk to your mother. Communication! If she understands and cares about you, she knows not to be too intrusive

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