How I can handle this ….?

My boyfriend and I are getting married next October (2007). My stepmother made the cake, but the only contribution (Which we are aware) that parents contribute to the wedding (apart from a wedding gift). Thus, in a nutshell … We paid the whole thing. It seems that nothing we do is "right" according to my mother. We have a list of 200 people in their eyes … "Too many people." We have a great wedding feast … his opinion, "We just need his sister and her sister. "Now, we say that we are a buffet dinner, so we have something for everyone (vegetarian, pork, beef and chicken nuggets .. including children) in the eyes "We are tight wads "…. remains at $ 30.00/person (not a big problem) If they call me to ask a question, your answer is "You are at the beginning of the planning … even more than a year!" My question to you all is …. What I can do with it without losing it! I am willing to un-invite! AHHHHH!

Nothing to do with this marriage will be fine with your mother so you might as well stop being angry anymore. You have another year to do. You must stop calling and asking their opinion. You know she will respond in the negative, why bother? I do not understand can not participate, but it is better to remember this moment as a happy as he said that implies that you are trying for everyone but please you and your boyfriend. The next time your mother made a comment, well let her know that her marriage and her boyfriend and is in the planning of the most important day his life according to your wishes. If she wants to plan the wedding, and then asked if he would like to finance the whole thing and in this case, you'd be happy to convert planning itself. If she continues to make negative comments turn the tables on her and I asked him why it intends to downgrade their ideas and ruin such a special time for you with their negativity. Usually, after behavior to sick people, keep your mouth. Let him know that if you like and do not want that Things happen and if it can not be supportive and positive, you will be forced to not associate with any planning or the parts and functions that go with it. Please, Please concentrate on your future and your wedding wonderful boyfriend. They both deserve the best!

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