Wedding shower etiquette question! I am planning a bachelorette party for my best friend. It is about the kitchen. It

I throw a baby shower Wedding my best friend. It is about the kitchen. She does not want to open presents in the shower. Is this considered rude? I think it is, but what I know.

It is not bad manners to show appreciation for a gift box. Why would he want to get donations and do not open? Therefore, gifts for her marriage that she can not choose open reception, which is acceptable.

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